Monday, 14 October 2013

Hello again,


Thanks for all the kind words of support in your posts. They are all helping to keep our chins up while we wait, wait and wait some more. We’re all starting to get a bit fed up now, but we know it’s the means to an end and writing this is helping to keep some of the boredom at bay.

We have included a pic taken of Zach in the multi-sensory room. This is in the complementary therapy unit within the ward. It has some lava lamp type cylinders that have ambient lighting within and fibre optics which Zach is sat amongst. It gives us some time away from the hustle and bustle of ward life, although once it’s all up and running and the music is on, you do find yourself choking up as your mind wonders. Zach now has a U-shaped scar on the right hand side of his head, which you can see in the picture. This is where the Omaya reservoir is situated. It doesn’t bother him too much as the Neuro surgeons have severed the nerves to that area, so we are assured he shouldn’t feel anything. This will also help when it comes to accessing the port with needles for his treatment. The scar is behind the hair line so once the hair grows back you shouldn’t be able to see it.

We have attached another picture of Zach which was taken around the time he was diagnosed with Retinoblastoma (Rb). Some of you may have not noticed at first but his left eye has no red reflex or “red eye”. This is one way of spotting Rb, although it is very rare with only 40-50 children a year being diagnosed in the UK. If you would like to find out more about the signs and symptoms of Rb then go to the childhood eye cancer trust web site http://www.chect.org.uk/cms/index.php/signs-and-symptoms. Fortunately we don’t think Zach was displaying any of the signs or symptoms of his brain tumour when he was diagnosed but there is a website for the research centre that Prof Grundy works in, its www.cbtrc.org. There is a picture of Prof Grundy there just in case anyone wondered what the Professor looks like. If you go to http://www.headsmart.org.uk/ they have a good guide to recognising signs and symptoms of brain tumours in children and young people.

Zach has now started his chemotherapy. It will be a “fairly intense course followed by a very intense course” as the Prof described. The protocol for his treatment came from the children’s oncology group which is in the states, as the UK children cancer group doesn’t have a protocol for the combination of two types of tumour that Zach has, which goes to prove how rare his combination of cancers are. The chemo he is receiving hasn’t be given at this hospital before but the Prof has used this protocol before. It will make Zach very poorly; most kids including Zach spend a lot of time sleeping during their chemo, which is best for them. He will most likely lose his curls, and he will probably lose weight. He may end up with a nasogastric tube to help feed him if he is off his food. Having spent a wee bit of time around other children who have cancer, suffering the symptoms above doesn’t seem to affect them too badly, there is still screaming kids running up and down the wards, the play room is used a lot by them, they still smile and get up to mischief. They are a lot better with just getting on with it, than us adults. Even Zach who was a bit sick today still managed to pick his head up from the rim of a sick bowl and smile at the nurse as she walked past and he had some food at supper time as well which goes to prove he must be a Sinclair!!!!

I hope that you are all doing fine and this is managing to keep you all up to date. Please keep spreading the word on how Zach is getting on and look out for the next post.  


8 comments:

  1. What a trooper he is. I had leaking eyes when I read that he managed to smile at the nurse despite being sick. He is a credit to you both as are you to him. The sensory room looks cool. I'm going to check out the Prof in a minute. If you need anything please let me know. I know I sound like a stuck record but you are always in my thoughts. Neil Paylor and my Mum send their best and their thoughts are with you too. Stay strong. Lots of love. Ange, Curt and Mitch. X

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  2. Lovely to speak to Hayley today, so glad treatment has started, tis a shitty road you'll have to travel to begin with but it'll get brighter along the way! You guys look after each other. Big hugs an love as always Penny an Chris x x

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  3. Sending love and hugs to you all from Scotland. So full of admiration for your strength and positivity, which will mean so much to Zach. It sounds like you're in the very best of hands, so keep smiling and please keep us updated with your news. Sarah and Stu xxx

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  4. Our little girl Lily is in the Ladybird room with Zach, my heart goes out to you, and wishing Zach all the love in the world from Sandy, Jo, Ellie, Isobel and Lily xxxx

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  5. Hi Hayley
    I previously sent the note below by email but had not realised you are in hospital so guess you have not seen it. I now appreciate that making the party may not be practical but I'm hoping...

    Hi Hayley

    I have received Zach's blog and to say I was completely floored is an understatement.

    I cannot begin to understand what you and Stu and all your family must be going through. However having beaten cancer myself I can offer you some comfort and hope.

    Zach is an amazing little boy who has already overcome a lot and I know that with his strength and the love he has from you he will get through this.

    On a lighter note as you are well aware the boys are shortly to celebrate their 1st birthdays! Can you believe it!

    We have organised a party for George at Little Jack's Farm on Sunday 27th October and we are really hoping that Zach will be able to join us.

    I have an invitation for him so if you could just let me have your new address I will get it in the post straight away.

    Please do let me know if there is anything at all we can do for you and be assured that you are all in our thoughts.

    All our love

    Sarah, Roddy & George xx

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  6. Sending big hugs and kisses to Zach and also the two of you.Auntie Sandra Christine Carol Vicky and of course Auntie Ed all send their best wishes for the 3 of you .Loads of love Auntie Jacqui XXX

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  7. Stuart,Hayley and our gorgeous wee grandson Zach, we are so proud and full of admiration for the way you continue to cope with Zach's diagnosis and very challenging treatment with dignity and courage.
    It breaks our hearts that we can't be with you all more often , but this makes our visits even more precious.
    You are always in our thoughts and hearts.
    Love Granny and Granda Graham. XXX

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